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Balancing the Hustle: Crafting an Intentional Self-Care Routine for Inner and Outer Success

We often hear the phrase, "Time is Money." But for the ambitious businesswoman, time is not just money, it's a precious resource that when well-invested, yields not only financial rewards but also spiritual and emotional wellness. One such investment is 'intentional self-care.'

Amidst the deadlines, deals, and day-to-day challenges, one's well-being can inadvertently take a backseat. However, it’s essential to understand that our mental, emotional, and physical health is the very foundation upon which our professional success stands. Deprive the foundation, and the structure risks crumbling.

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Ashley Sharie Personal brand Strategist

Why Intentional Self-Care Matters

Life's richness doesn't just stem from our achievements but from our ability to relish each moment, and self-care plays a pivotal role in enhancing our capacity to do so. Quality self-care isn't only about pampering; it's about nurturing our well-being so we can show up fully in every area of our lives.

It's about ensuring that we're not just existing but truly living. While working hard affords us "life's luxuries" self-care adds depth, vibrancy, and an inner glow. It ensures that we're not just chasing moments but deeply experiencing and cherishing them.

Revamp Your Self-Care Routine

As weekends roll around, they present the perfect opportunity to indulge in activities that rejuvenate us. Here are some activities that can easily be rotated in and out of your self-care routine:

  1. Prioritize Sleep: It's not the hours, but the restfulness that counts. Hit the reset button with some deep, quality sleep.

  2. Nature Walks: Whether dawn or dusk, a mindful walk lets you breathe and unwind. Ditch the phone and get out for a 20-30 min solo walk.

  3. Delve into Books: Give your brain a real break and get into fiction. Self-help, business etc. books have their time/place -- but try a contemporary romance or a new genre for a change. Get a few ideas from my list.

  4. Watch a Movie/Show - Unplugged!: It's not so much what you watch, but how you watch. How many times have you turned on a show and missed the entire episode because you were on your phone? Put your phone in DND, and place it in another room -- curl up on the couch and get lost in whatever you decide to watch.

  5. Connect with Loved Ones: Call a friend or family member and have a quick check-in. It doesn't have to be hours, even 15 min is enough to maintain our connections and increase our endorphins.

  6. Cook a New Dish: Trying something new is a great way to engage all of your senses and add novelty to an otherwise mundane task. Bonus: Have an unplugged meal. No phone, no TV -- just you and your new creation.

  7. Indulgent Baths: Extend your regular bath time, add bubbles, essential oils, candles, music -- the whole nine. Settle in and visualize the stress melting away.

  8. Mindful Moments: Stretch it out or just breathe deep for 5 minutes. The importance here is to take time to just be -- let your body sit still for a few moments.

  9. Celebrate You: Look back on your week. What made you smile? What did you accomplish? Write it down and celebrate yourself.

  10. Discover New Spaces: Be a tourist in your own backyard. Try a new coffee shop, restaurant, museum etc. The only rule to keep in mind is it must be a new experience.

  11. Dance/Move: Turn up the volume and go with the flow in your own living room. Moving your body (dance or otherwise) moves stagnant energy -- especially after sitting at the computer for hours on end.

Other Forms of Self-Care

Contrary to popular belief, self-care isn't always about the indulgent spa days or the luxurious vacations. Sometimes, it's about the less glamorous, yet equally vital tasks. It might be hitting the gym, even when every muscle aches, or balancing your budget to ensure financial security. Even those overdue doctor's visits play a role.

These might not give you the instant endorphin rush that a spa day does, but they ensure your long-term well-being. After all, wealth isn’t just about the size of your bank account; it's about the richness of your health and vitality.

A Final Thought

In essence, life's quality isn't determined by how much we do, but by how fully we live each moment. while our professional journey demands sacrifices and relentless effort, it's crucial to remember that self-care isn't a luxury – it's a necessity. It's a gentle reminder that amidst our myriad roles and responsibilities, we owe it to ourselves to flourish, savor, and celebrate. Embracing intentional self-care ensures that we're not just succeeding in business, but also thriving in life. So, here's to making every weekend count, and every self-care activity intentional.


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Hi I'm Ashley Sharie!

I'm a branding strategist and mindset coach with over a decade of experience, specializing in crafting powerhouse brands and developing CEO mindsets using innovative approaches to strategy and visioning to empower ambitious women.

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